Sunday, November 11, 2012

Careless country?

My Condolences to a country that apparently doesn't care who they put in office....
I'm glad my time in the Air Force was well spent.  Tell  you what, aside from pay, there's not much incentive to enlist anymore...  Happy Veterans day indeed....

Saturday, March 19, 2011

A war born song (With my two cents thrown in all through the song)

Oh say can you see
By the dawns early light


(I really don't think this country does "see" anymore)


What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,



(When's the last time we proudly hailed anything having to do with this country?, Until the people in charge of this country aren't, that isn't going to change)


O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there



(It's pathetic that our flag, the symbol of our country, has become something to burn and mutilate in the pursuit of "free speech"... BULLCRAP! )


Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?



(Not for long...  We aren't as free as we used to be and the brave are getting very few and far between)

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Reactive Attachement

They're are people that don't quite understand what we are trying to with with our two little RAD kids...  Please,  click on this link, it'll take you to my wifes blog that has "our story".  Put there to help others also experiencing what I tongue in cheek, call a "special blessing"
http://literaryworks.blogspot.com/2010/07/reactive-attachment-disorder-when-love.html

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Pray

Please pray for us.   We have embarked on a very strict and rigid road in order to attempt to steer our two youngest kids out of the situation they are in and I expect to get flack from some OUTSIDE the (local) family during this process...refer to facebook for details...

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Anger

I'd be a liar if I said I didn't have a problem with this...  "Thanks" to the internet I've said things, far from the way they should have been said, no matter how justified I thought I was at the time.  The Internet, in this instance, gives the coward a chance to talk without the consequence of hearing rebuttals of any kind.... that, in my experience is dangerous.   Being hateful without fear of rebuttal can never be a good thing.   Oddly enough We are trying to teach our youngest about experiencing consequences because of their actions....  The following devotions covers the anger subject rather well:


Putting off Anger

Wednesday, February 24, 2010
by Dr. Paul Chappell
"Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."
Ephesians 4:31-32
Holding onto anger is like holding onto a snaked poised to strike.
Arturo Toscanini was an expert conductor in the early 1900s. Known for his interpretation of great composers such as Verdi, Beethoven, Brahms, and Wagner; Toscanini was revered as one of the greatest Italian conductors of his time. Through his time conducting the NBC Symphony Orchestra on a radio program, he became a household name. What most people didn't know about the great composer was his often uncontrollable temper. In fits of rage he was known to throw precious masterpieces at his musicians and risk losing such great compositions. Especially troubled by his temper was his composition librarian. Charged to watch over the masterpieces, she went to great lengths to study Toscanini's behavior before a fit of temper. First, he would grab his baton with both hands and struggle to break it. If he succeeded, he would usually calm down afterward. If he did not succeed, he would grab the nearest compositions and begin hurling them at students. How did his librarian help preserve the compositions? She made sure Toscanini conducted with a weak baton.
Toscanini's anger almost cost him timeless, priceless pieces of workmanship. Rather than controlling his temper, he allowed his anger to overcome him. How many people could identify with Toscanini? Classes are taught, seminars held, and trained professionals hold meetings to help people combat anger issues. But God shows us in Ephesians 4 that His desire is for anger, hatred, a quick temper, and bitterness be put off each day, "Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice."
Put off anger. Someone once described anger as a man who hated being slapped on the back, so his solution was to strap dynamite to his back and wait to teach a lesson to the next person who slapped him. Anger not only hurts the people around you, but also hurts you.
Anger not only brings emotional and spiritual problems, but anger and bitterness has been linked to several medical problems. Doctors and medical professionals realize the danger in holding onto anger, and encourage people to release their anger in a constructive manner. While their methods are based on science, God's methods of putting off anger is based in His Word.
You must practice a putting off of anger each time your emotions rise. Even when a situation seems beyond your control and your flesh tells you to react harshly, seek God and put off the anger you feel.
Put on kindness. To replace the anger you feel, God commands you to put on kindness, "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you." When putting off something in your life, replacing it with something good helps keep you on the right track. In the case of anger, a good way to put off feelings of animosity is to replace them with feelings of kindness. Showing someone love, turning the other cheek, and returning evil with good are all ways God desires for you to put on kindness.
Do you ever feel anger toward someone? Perhaps a situation happens that "presses your buttons" or builds feelings of resentment in you. Rather than giving place to anger, seek God's help in putting off the old feelings of hatred and putting on kindness through loving actions toward others.
To learn more about the ministries of Lancaster Baptist Church and Pastor Chappell, please visit lancasterbaptist.org,paulchappell.com, or follow him on twitter